Step-Parent Exclusion

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The individual is in the process of developing a new parenting plan with their ex-partner and has requested that the ex-partner’s new partner not be present during custody exchanges. These exchanges occur in a public place in South Australia. The individual has expressed concerns about the partner's behaviour, noting that they have received messages that were described as controlling and undermining, feeling that the partner has overstepped their role as a step-parent. The legal matters involved include Family Law, Custody Dispute, and Custody.

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Is it unreasonable to ask that a step-parent not be present at custody exchanges?

It is not inherently unreasonable to request that a step-parent not be present at custody exchanges, especially if their presence causes distress or hinders the process. The Family Law Act prioritises the child's best interests, and if the step-parent's behaviour negatively impacts the child or creates conflict, you could argue for an arrangement excluding them. Documenting any inappropriate behaviour and communication with your ex about these issues can strengthen your position.

What legal grounds do I have to request that my ex's partner not attend custody exchanges?

To request that your ex's partner not attend custody exchanges, you could argue that their presence is not in the child's best interest. If the partner's behaviour creates a hostile environment, you might seek a variation of the custody arrangement or a specific court order. Document instances of inappropriate behaviour and how it impacts your child to support your claim.

How can I address inappropriate behaviour by a step-parent during custody exchanges legally?

To address inappropriate behaviour by a step-parent during custody exchanges legally, you can consider applying for a court order under the Family Law Act. This order could specify the conditions for exchanges, potentially restricting the step-parent's involvement. If the behaviour is harassing, you may also seek an intervention order. Documenting incidents will support your case.

Are there any potential legal consequences if my ex's partner continues to overstep during custody matters?

If your ex's partner continues to overstep during custody matters, it could lead to legal consequences such as the court varying the existing parenting orders. If the partner's behaviour negatively affects the child or the co-parenting relationship, you may seek to amend the orders to restrict their involvement.

Can any formal arrangements be made to prevent the step-parent from being involved in these exchanges?

In South Australia, formal arrangements can be included in a parenting plan or consent order to prevent a step-parent from being involved in custody exchanges. If both parties agree, they can create a parenting plan that specifies who may be present during exchanges. If contested, you can apply to the Family Court for a consent order, which is legally binding.

What is considered inappropriate behaviour by the step-parent?

Inappropriate behaviour by a step-parent during custody exchanges can include controlling or manipulative actions that undermine the co-parenting arrangement. Such behaviours could negatively impact the child's welfare and the co-parenting relationship.

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