Emmalaura Messer

Emmalaura Messer is the Director and Principal Lawyer at Starling Family Law in Melbourne, known for her personalised and empathetic approach to family law. Her practice spans both collaborative law and high-conflict litigation, demonstrating her versatility and ability to handle diverse family law matters effectively. Emmalaura's commitment to client-centred service is evident in her ability to demystify the legal process and empower clients to make informed decisions. Emmalaura's extensive experience covers a wide range of family law issues, including high-net-worth cases, same-sex relationships, and family violence. She leverages her training in psychology to navigate cases involving psychological disorders and neurodiversity with a deep understanding of human behaviour, enhancing her ability to achieve favourable outcomes for her clients. Her legal journey began with roles at the County Court and Supreme Court of Victoria, moving through Victoria Legal Aid before entering private practice. With significant advocacy experience, she has appeared in various courts across Australia. Emmalaura's professional qualifications include a Bachelor of Behavioural Science and a Master of Laws in Dispute Resolution. Accredited as a mediator and trained in collaborative law, she continually enhances her skills for the benefit of her practice. Beyond her professional life, Emmalaura contributes to her community through volunteer work, including a decade of service with the Women's Legal Service. Her passion for travel, theatre, and live music adds balance to her life, enriching her interactions with clients and colleagues alike. Emmalaura is admitted to the Supreme Court of Victoria and the High Court of Australia and is an active member of several legal associations, reinforcing her commitment to professional excellence and client advocacy.