Narcissistic Spouse Conflict
The client resides in a location in England and has been experiencing difficulties living with their spouse, whom they describe as narcissistic, for the past 14 years. There have been conflicts regarding their children, including an incident where the spouse took the children on holiday without consultation. This situation has created significant strain on their domestic life. The issues relate to family matters, mental health, family law, and potential divorce considerations.
Questions about this case
These answers have been verified by a lawyer in the LEAP networkWhat are my options for pursuing a divorce in England, and how might the courts view the impact of my spouse's behaviour on our children?
To pursue a divorce in England, you can file a petition for divorce on the grounds of irretrievable breakdown of the marriage, citing unreasonable behaviour. The courts will prioritize the welfare of your children, and any evidence demonstrating the negative impact of your spouse’s behaviour on the children may affect custody decisions.
How will the courts consider my mental health and well-being when determining custody arrangements for my children?
When determining custody arrangements, the courts focus on the best interests of the children, which includes assessing the mental health and well-being of both parents. Evidence supporting your mental health status, such as medical documentation, may be beneficial in demonstrating your ability to care for the children.
What legal steps should I take if I believe my spouse’s actions are affecting my children’s welfare?
If you suspect that your spouse's actions affect your children's welfare, you might consider obtaining a Child Arrangements Order to decide on living arrangements and time spent with each parent. Document any incidents impacting your children's welfare and consult with a family solicitor about protecting your children's interests.
How does living in a situation with a challenging spouse affect the division of property and assets in divorce proceedings?
In divorce proceedings, the court seeks a fair division of assets based on contributions and needs rather than the behaviour of the parties. However, if a challenging spouse has caused financial issues or undue stress, this could influence the court's view on asset division.
What legal support or resources are available for individuals dealing with domestic issues related to a spouse's behaviour?
Resources available for individuals experiencing difficulties with a spouse's challenging behaviour include organisations such as Citizens Advice for guidance on domestic issues and the National Domestic Abuse Helpline for confidential support. Counselling services can also provide emotional support in managing a difficult relationship.
I was married abroad and unable to provide original documentation; what can I do?
If you cannot provide original documentation of your marriage abroad, consider supplying certified copies or alternative evidence such as affidavits. The family court may accept evidence of attempts to obtain the original documents.
